Monday, September 3, 2012

Budget, Check!

If you've been following this blog, you know My Guy popped the question back in February (about 7 months ago for anyone counting), and we've been basking in engagement bliss ever since.  After he popped the big question we immediately started talking about venues.  We knew we wanted something beautiful with a view (what bride doesn't?), and we knew it needed to be fairly large in size (with a guest list looming at 200 we knew we wanted elbow room).  Originally we had planned on a fall 2013 wedding day, and I was excited to have our photos with a foliage landscaped background.  We went to look at one venue, based on what it listed on line, it seemed right up our alley; affordable, large in size, outdoor, tented dance floor, indoor bar and cocktail area, overlooking an apple orchid I thought I was in love. We drove a little over an hour to the venue, and despite the drive I was still hoping this was our spot.  My Guy's family is traveling from Oregon to Boston for our big day, and thinking about asking them to travel even further from their hotel for a few hours seemed selfish, but on we went. 
So we get there, and it's as breathtaking as the pictures showed on line; though it was March, the trees and grounds were perfect.  It was everything I had hoped... then came the "between the lines."  On line the charge for the venue was about $4800 less than what we were told in person, we were also told that they did all the catering and no outside food would be allowed to be brought in- again, different from what it said on the website, and the real kicker; we had to evacuate the property by 10pm (all vendors included), which means our party would need to be over around 9pm. 
Needless to say, after making My Guy drive all the way to the western part of the state, suffering a little financial shock, and feeling like we got punched in the gut, we were a little more than discouraged. 
Months went by, we hemmed and hawed about what we were going to do.  He was pushing for a destination wedding, and I just wanted to be a princess for a day- surrounded by 200 of our nearest and dearest friends and family.  I dragged my feet in planning, bummed that it seemed as if we couldn't afford the wedding we (I) wanted.  Last month, someone asked how wedding planning was going, and I told her that it wasn't going well.  I hadn't done anything, I'd just been so busy.  Well, she almost exploded.  She was furious with me, telling me that this isn't something I should be putting off, this is the rest of my life, and there was a reason I wasn't moving forward, and it wasn't because I was too busy.  In my head I heard my little finance manager whispering "Put together a budget, and make it happen,"  Well, put together a budget I did... and as it turns out, we will be having the wedding WE want, and I couldn't be more excited!!
Stay tuned for updates on picking our venue, developing our budget, sacrifices we've made, and an introduction to my bridal party!